Well, I finally did it!

I broke down and joined a See my full profile Free Online Dating website and was pleasantly surprised. I never had luck dating guys I met in a bar or through hookups from friends. Blind dating never worked out for me either. Online Dating worked or me, mainly because it was free and I had so many profiles to choose from and many men and women to interact with and get to know better. Some people are not comfortable with Free Online Dating Websites, but with a few pointers and dating advice from me, you will be on your way to a new happy relationship.

You might be looking for a soulmate or maybe just looking to hookup with someone local in your area. Imagine this, your palms are sweaty; your mouth is dry. Acting too serious too soon can scare some guys off. Even if you think you’ve made a connection and you really like someone you’ve been seeing, don’t act too clingy after just a few dates. If you don’t project confidence when in the presence of men you might be interested in, you can probably write off a love connection. Getting asked out (or asking someone out and getting a yes) requires a certain level of confidence. And just because you don’t feel confident doesn’t mean you can’t act like you are.Sure, standards are good.  Either way, follow these steps and you will be better prepared to try Online Dating.

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1. Relax.
Before you launch into your clever spiel that you are sure will attract the other person, take a deep breath. Have a brief reality check. What happens in the next few minutes is not that important in the scheme of things. Just try to have fun and not be too tied to the outcome.

2. Catch the “fun bug.”
Don’t be Serious Sarah. Surely you’ve noticed how everyone gravitates to the person in the room who looks most like she’s enjoying herself. Besides, you’re probably cuter when you smile.

3. Don’t knock yourself out trying to be clever.
Think about how much you hate guys’ lame pickup lines. That’s because they’re usually forced and unnatural. The best line is no line. Try, “Hello, my name is …”

4. The eyes have it.
Gaze warmly into his eyes and hopefully one day soon you’ll be gazing together at the moon.

5. Use the magic touch.
Lightly, lightly now. You don’t want to frighten the person by being aggressive, but if the situation warrants, it’s fine to reach out and give a casual pat. For example, if he says something funny, you can touch his arm. His reaction will be a good way to gauge if he’s interested.

6. Be ready for viewing.
It sounds obvious, but whenever you go out make sure you look your best. Comb your hair, brush your teeth, slap on that coat of lipstick, and don’t wear clothes with holes, even if you’re just going to the grocery store.

7. Slouch not.
Just as good posture shows confidence, slouching or standing with your arms folded across your chest sends an insecure message. You emit a stronger, more attractive aura when you sit or stand up straight.

8. It’s not all about you.
Especially in situations where every second literally counts it’s good not to monopolize the conversation with tales of your remarkable exploits.  Save some stories for the first date.”

9. Have opinions but don’t be too opinionated.
Strike that balance between agreeing with everything the other person says (being a blank slate is boring) and attacking everything he says as being wrong-minded.